Dept. of Personal Assessment
Pre-Pay It
Avoid envy of others’ lives with the right financial accounting
There’s a financial way of thinking about one’s life I’ve had for years, but I like my most recent way to refer to it: pre-paying.
Everyone, in some form, has bought into a slice of life. For better or worse, you pay more or less for what you enjoy, and your job compensates you more or less, based on where you are and what you do.
The idea is elements of your life which are easy, inexpensive, or gratifying for you is indication you’ve pre-paid them.
Example: do you hate rush-hour driving and prefer to podcast your way to work on public transportation? If you live near light rail where housing costs are 10–20% higher, you pre-paid the convenience of an easy commute.
But let me back up and get at why thinking in such puerile economic terms is more useful than ever to help you be more appreciative of what you have.
Envy of others’ lives is more available than ever before.
My uncle Mark first pointed up the subtle ease and danger of comparing yourself — a singleton — to many.
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